Note: if you get bored with my preamble, skip to the boldface title, below.
Thank you for your honesty and bravery. Many of us have prejudices that we can't just turn off; many of us would mostly like to turn them off while part of us doesn't want to—because there are benefits to feeling superior; many of us can't make feelings stop, just because our int... (more)
The theme is offensive to many Asian people. That's all you need to know to conclude that this party shouldn't have happened. You don't have to argue about if it should be; does that really matter? Can you really tell people that it doesn't matter that they're hurting simply because you don't think they should be hurt?
Given that, people are responding i... (more)